The Same Place to Come Back

Hello, guys! How are you? I'm super fine today because I had so much good times to spend. I have a long weekend (finally), from Thursday to Sunday! Ah, and I also cut my hair. Now my hair is very short! Hahaha ~~ Such a blessing! I hope you also had a good time too~ (:

Lately, I've been watching a Korean drama series called Love Story in Harvard, which is involving Kim Tae Hee as the main character of the drama. You might be asking why do I watch Korean drama. Well, believe it or not, my lecturer on college wanted us, the students to watch and analyze that drama series. Well, I enjoyed it so much but it has 16 episodes (an episode is 60 minutes long!). I don't really have time for it so I watched them an episode per day :") such an unusual assignment, eh? hahaha~~

Ah, anyway. I wanted to tell you guys, why do I always give you some supports and (maybe) advice for you to be yourself. Well, to be honest, I live in such a cruel society. I live between those people who can't appreciate the differences. People who always think that being different is such a shameful thing to do...

Well, I know that feel. But I enjoy it. I enjoy them who always underestimate me.




I have some unique friends. Those who have some courage to tell me who they really are: gay, tomboy, bisexual, even transgender... Well, of course, at first, I would never ever think that some of my friends are like that. If you were me, how would you feel? You'd be like, "OMFG, really?" Yes. I felt the same way. But surprisingly, I don't mind them being like that. For me, they are so so so brave. Slowly but sure, they just act just the way they are. They are so beautiful in their own way, I really appreciate them. For me, they are way better than those who act fake just to make the others love them.

But I know, sometimes it feels so so wrong. Even (for myself), I feel that what they're interested in (for this case, it's sexual orientation), is just not so common and so wrong. Sometimes, my friends who are in this case, feel so guilty and sorry about themselves. And to be honest, when they asked for advice and opinion, I just couldn't say anything except those some common-motivation-thingy to make them feel better.

But, after I had a long thoughts about this, the only One who can help yo through this problem, is God. He won't ever let you down when you really ask for His help. Pray. Pray and be optimistic, and keep doing your best. God will have such a fantastic present for you if you pray and do your best to chase your ambition.

You feel down because you don't remember that there's Someone who always be there for you. Someone who will always remember you whenever you remember Him. For me, God is the same place to come back: from your problems, your long journey to find yourself, your dreams...

The important thing to be happy is when you are thankful for everything you've had: the air you breathe today, the enjoyable food, family and best friends who always by your side... And the most important thing is, when you are thankful for being yourself. When you already accept the way you are, when you already understand what you want, what you desire.

this is Hamatora. I love how the characters who have so many different personalities
can live in harmony together. I wish our society can be like that, too.

When you already accept your flaws, when you already have dreams which await you, you won't have time to give a shit to those people who judge you (ain't nobody got time for that, lol!). You will be busy chasing your dreams, prove them that you ARE really different from them. You're success, while they don't. You are real, while they aren't. What a sweet revenge (;

So... for you guys who always feel sorry of being yourself, just remember that you are not alone. God will always by your side. Keep praying, doing, thankful, and thinking positive about everything. Everything is possible. There's no rainbow without rain, and great things take times. You just have to believe in yourself, in your God, and, always be thankful of everything.

Be happy, because you are special. You are one of a kind.
Don't be ordinary, be extraordinary!

Now, smile, because you're loved.

Lots of love,
Dea





ps: I was smiling and happy when I wrote this post. I really wish that this post will help you to be happy and grateful because of your difference. I hope I could write this thing again soon, because I really can't stand society who keep judging others like they're the perfect one. -_-

pss: have a great day!